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<blockquote data-quote="mstang67chic" data-source="post: 295706" data-attributes="member: 2459"><p>I don't understand it completely but I can see where a parent can be in denial. However, even with the brainwashing your husband got from HIS mother, does he honestly think that difficult child will just somehow grow out of this twisted, violent and dangerous behavior? I feel bad for difficult child because I can't imagine having those thoughts and feelings but at the same time, he's learned that Daddy will protect him from consequences. Does husband not realize what this kid will be like when he grows up if he doesn't get help five years ago??? No one wants to think/admit that their child is that disturbed but this kid is DANGEROUS. </p><p></p><p>Maybe (I know....big maybe) if husband is confronted with information on what kind of a future this kid is facing without treatment, MAYBE he'll get a clue. From what you've said about him though, I think it's going to take a HUGE shock of some sort to get husband to understand. This isn't about embarrassing the family. This is about saving difficult child's life and quite possibly the lives of others. </p><p></p><p>I agree that husband is in need of some serious therapy for himself because of how he was raised but I think the most pressing thing at the moment is to get him clued in on difficult child. I wish there was some easy button to push for this. No one should have to live like you do or live like ANY of you do. </p><p></p><p>Hugs. I wish I knew what to do to help.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mstang67chic, post: 295706, member: 2459"] I don't understand it completely but I can see where a parent can be in denial. However, even with the brainwashing your husband got from HIS mother, does he honestly think that difficult child will just somehow grow out of this twisted, violent and dangerous behavior? I feel bad for difficult child because I can't imagine having those thoughts and feelings but at the same time, he's learned that Daddy will protect him from consequences. Does husband not realize what this kid will be like when he grows up if he doesn't get help five years ago??? No one wants to think/admit that their child is that disturbed but this kid is DANGEROUS. Maybe (I know....big maybe) if husband is confronted with information on what kind of a future this kid is facing without treatment, MAYBE he'll get a clue. From what you've said about him though, I think it's going to take a HUGE shock of some sort to get husband to understand. This isn't about embarrassing the family. This is about saving difficult child's life and quite possibly the lives of others. I agree that husband is in need of some serious therapy for himself because of how he was raised but I think the most pressing thing at the moment is to get him clued in on difficult child. I wish there was some easy button to push for this. No one should have to live like you do or live like ANY of you do. Hugs. I wish I knew what to do to help. [/QUOTE]
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