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Whaddaya know? He did everything on the list
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<blockquote data-quote="TerryJ2" data-source="post: 155050" data-attributes="member: 3419"><p>For the past few days, difficult child has been extremely contentious. I seem to be making it worse. So I've been trying to back off, using the microwave timer, cutting thing into small chores instead of rifling off a list, etc.</p><p>He lost a lot of things from his rm last wk for breaking a window and otherwise exploding, and of course, wanted to earn back his wrestling men, rather than practical things like a pillow.</p><p>The other night I found him with-my pillow ... he had taken it off my bed. Mean Mom that I am, I took it from him and quietly told him he had to earn it back. He got mad but was too tired to argue, and fell asleep.</p><p>As husband and I were getting ready to go out on our date night last night, difficult child got angrier and angrier and argued with-everything. So I made a list of chores, incl. sweeping the leaves out of the garage in order to earn back a pillow. He flat out refused to do it, LOUDLY, and I just walked out the door.</p><p> </p><p>When we got home, I found a broom outside the garage, and the dogs had been brought back in and fed, and his homework was done. I asked difficult child what the balled up, scribbled, shredded piece of paper was on the kitchen table.</p><p>It was his list of chores that he had finished. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p>Yaaay! So, he was still ticked and had taken it out on the list, but that is NOT a problem, LOL.</p><p>I have to keep reminding myself to step back and let him do it in his own time. And, I have to remember he likes lists and hates my voice. Too bad I'm not a robot.</p><p> </p><p>Oh, we increased his Adderal 5 mg. and there's not much of a difference. He's got a dr appointment. next wk. for his camp physical and we can talk about it in depth then.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TerryJ2, post: 155050, member: 3419"] For the past few days, difficult child has been extremely contentious. I seem to be making it worse. So I've been trying to back off, using the microwave timer, cutting thing into small chores instead of rifling off a list, etc. He lost a lot of things from his rm last wk for breaking a window and otherwise exploding, and of course, wanted to earn back his wrestling men, rather than practical things like a pillow. The other night I found him with-my pillow ... he had taken it off my bed. Mean Mom that I am, I took it from him and quietly told him he had to earn it back. He got mad but was too tired to argue, and fell asleep. As husband and I were getting ready to go out on our date night last night, difficult child got angrier and angrier and argued with-everything. So I made a list of chores, incl. sweeping the leaves out of the garage in order to earn back a pillow. He flat out refused to do it, LOUDLY, and I just walked out the door. When we got home, I found a broom outside the garage, and the dogs had been brought back in and fed, and his homework was done. I asked difficult child what the balled up, scribbled, shredded piece of paper was on the kitchen table. It was his list of chores that he had finished. :) Yaaay! So, he was still ticked and had taken it out on the list, but that is NOT a problem, LOL. I have to keep reminding myself to step back and let him do it in his own time. And, I have to remember he likes lists and hates my voice. Too bad I'm not a robot. Oh, we increased his Adderal 5 mg. and there's not much of a difference. He's got a dr appointment. next wk. for his camp physical and we can talk about it in depth then. [/QUOTE]
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