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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 41699" data-attributes="member: 393"><p>Don't fight this .... bio mom will always be important in difficult children life. You can comment on choices she made but never ever put bio mom down in front of a difficult child. difficult child will defend her to the death & nothing will be accomplished.</p><p></p><p>And our difficult children grieve over the loss of a parent. In reality, our difficult children are very angry with bio mom - though they would never admit it out loud. How could bio mom choose drugs over me? What did I do wrong .... what could I have done differently?</p><p></p><p>There are no answers to those questions. </p><p></p><p>Therapy with a therapist who specializes in attachment issues would be your best bet. A therapist who understands the PTSD component of all of this & the anger directed at you - the female primary caregiver.</p><p></p><p>I'm sorry that difficult child is so very unstable & angry right now. I hope things calm down soon.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 41699, member: 393"] Don't fight this .... bio mom will always be important in difficult children life. You can comment on choices she made but never ever put bio mom down in front of a difficult child. difficult child will defend her to the death & nothing will be accomplished. And our difficult children grieve over the loss of a parent. In reality, our difficult children are very angry with bio mom - though they would never admit it out loud. How could bio mom choose drugs over me? What did I do wrong .... what could I have done differently? There are no answers to those questions. Therapy with a therapist who specializes in attachment issues would be your best bet. A therapist who understands the PTSD component of all of this & the anger directed at you - the female primary caregiver. I'm sorry that difficult child is so very unstable & angry right now. I hope things calm down soon. [/QUOTE]
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