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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 405202" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi</p><p> </p><p>thanks to all. i'm not doing a full neuropysch evaluation. did one for difficult child years ago was 5k. we're doing a pysch evaluation. that'll just touch on the issues. i highly agree. now husband and i have been together for 5 years. but alot of changes indeed. easy child has always felt so jealous of difficult child thru the years. i have made the time for her yet as you stated you just never know how their coping. life with difficult child isn't easy on any of us and if i at almost 41 am having coping problems man easy child's gotta be having them also.</p><p> </p><p>i think there might bea touch of add in there also though. yet we'll see. my divorce was years ago. about ten to be exact. she was thrilled about it. sounds insane yet the dynamic was far from healthy and difficult children birth and inability to self soothe etc. just pushed the boiling pot over so to speak. yet was traumatic at the time not a calm ending by any means.</p><p> </p><p>so she's taken her hits thru the years. def has a chip on her shoulder. i think doing evaluation, medications and therapy is way to go. and that whole pull her in and love her yet at same time give her rules. typical parenting junk. just that anger man she's got alot of it. i know how that goes. anger about "how" you want things to be, not accepting the life that you have, and acting out instead of verbalizing those feelings and finding coping strategies for it.</p><p> </p><p>you know what though we're all in recovery mode i think to be honest. difficult child not eating, has sent our home into wow mode.... it was a real wake up call to the level of problems she has and to the pain we've all suffered. the plus is we're all starting to talk about it. even husband opened up the other night. and he literally never complains about her.</p><p> </p><p>yet he ran to store bought balloons, cake, new night light for her than sat down toa scene and a half from both kids and difficult child off the wall. i could see how overwhelmed he got.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 405202, member: 4514"] hi thanks to all. i'm not doing a full neuropysch evaluation. did one for difficult child years ago was 5k. we're doing a pysch evaluation. that'll just touch on the issues. i highly agree. now husband and i have been together for 5 years. but alot of changes indeed. easy child has always felt so jealous of difficult child thru the years. i have made the time for her yet as you stated you just never know how their coping. life with difficult child isn't easy on any of us and if i at almost 41 am having coping problems man easy child's gotta be having them also. i think there might bea touch of add in there also though. yet we'll see. my divorce was years ago. about ten to be exact. she was thrilled about it. sounds insane yet the dynamic was far from healthy and difficult children birth and inability to self soothe etc. just pushed the boiling pot over so to speak. yet was traumatic at the time not a calm ending by any means. so she's taken her hits thru the years. def has a chip on her shoulder. i think doing evaluation, medications and therapy is way to go. and that whole pull her in and love her yet at same time give her rules. typical parenting junk. just that anger man she's got alot of it. i know how that goes. anger about "how" you want things to be, not accepting the life that you have, and acting out instead of verbalizing those feelings and finding coping strategies for it. you know what though we're all in recovery mode i think to be honest. difficult child not eating, has sent our home into wow mode.... it was a real wake up call to the level of problems she has and to the pain we've all suffered. the plus is we're all starting to talk about it. even husband opened up the other night. and he literally never complains about her. yet he ran to store bought balloons, cake, new night light for her than sat down toa scene and a half from both kids and difficult child off the wall. i could see how overwhelmed he got. [/QUOTE]
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