husband has had a friend he has worked with for 15 years. He is divorced, lives alon and He lives a few blocks from our house. easy child use to do yard work for him 13 or so years ago. Still works with husband.....His daughter died on Sunday. Her funeral is tomorrow. I know husband, he ignores things like this even though he should be there to support his friend. I know when my parents died how much it meant to see my friends come. For me. I have rarely seen this man. Do I insist husband go? Do I go with? husband and I are not speaking AT ALL. I can't bring myself to even look at him. However his sad act the other night is gone. I tried to call the house this morning to ask about the funeral. difficult child said he was making breakfast. I asked to talk to him anyway. All he said was he called the man yesterday. I asked how he was and he YELLED, "HOW DO YOU THINK". I reminded him we had an appointment tonight and he YELLED again saying he KNOWS that. I just hung up. JERK. But husband being a jerk has nothing to do with the sad loss of his friend. I did send online condolences. It is just so fresh in my mind how good it felt to see my friends with my mom's funeral. What to do?