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<blockquote data-quote="Masta" data-source="post: 86664" data-attributes="member: 308"><p>Barbara, yes I will be involved in my grandbabies life. I will make sure the baby is getting looked after. I have a good relationship with my difficult child's foster care case worker so if I see neglect or abuse I will report it straight away.</p><p></p><p>one part of me wants to act like a grandma and go out with difficult child and on my own and buy everything this baby needs. but on the other hand I feel cautious and worried that if I start loving this baby Im going to get hurt. the difficult childs mother in law is buying stuff 2nd hand... I dont know what the baby needs. the mother in law is acting like she is buying for her own child, buys stuff without my difficult child having a chance to select anything. since there was a inkling of an idea that my difficult child was pregnant, mother in law starting buying stuff before the test results came back positive.</p><p></p><p>its weird seeing your first born be pregnant. I just turned 16 when I had her now Im watching her go through the motions of being pregnant without emotion which is really weird. She doesnt seem excited she doesnt feel the baby kick (Im wondering if she comprehends what she is feeling) and she is 21 weeks. The ultrasound says the baby is ok but underweight.</p><p></p><p>difficult child didnt seem excited about her wedding either most of her wedding pics she seemed sad and lonely. I think her hubby is the friend (she never had) that she can control and that she isnt IN love with him.</p><p></p><p>As for a gift . I have come up with the perfect idea for difficult childs b/day. A pedicure. We can have lunch together then I can take her out and get a pedi together (I have never had one). difficult child cant take it back. I might take her shopping and get her fitted for a maternity bra as well. As for sister in law hubby will help him with his easy child . make him a few cds or something. As for xmas Ill buy a g/cert for them to have dinner somewhere nice like olive garden.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Masta, post: 86664, member: 308"] Barbara, yes I will be involved in my grandbabies life. I will make sure the baby is getting looked after. I have a good relationship with my difficult child's foster care case worker so if I see neglect or abuse I will report it straight away. one part of me wants to act like a grandma and go out with difficult child and on my own and buy everything this baby needs. but on the other hand I feel cautious and worried that if I start loving this baby Im going to get hurt. the difficult childs mother in law is buying stuff 2nd hand... I dont know what the baby needs. the mother in law is acting like she is buying for her own child, buys stuff without my difficult child having a chance to select anything. since there was a inkling of an idea that my difficult child was pregnant, mother in law starting buying stuff before the test results came back positive. its weird seeing your first born be pregnant. I just turned 16 when I had her now Im watching her go through the motions of being pregnant without emotion which is really weird. She doesnt seem excited she doesnt feel the baby kick (Im wondering if she comprehends what she is feeling) and she is 21 weeks. The ultrasound says the baby is ok but underweight. difficult child didnt seem excited about her wedding either most of her wedding pics she seemed sad and lonely. I think her hubby is the friend (she never had) that she can control and that she isnt IN love with him. As for a gift . I have come up with the perfect idea for difficult childs b/day. A pedicure. We can have lunch together then I can take her out and get a pedi together (I have never had one). difficult child cant take it back. I might take her shopping and get her fitted for a maternity bra as well. As for sister in law hubby will help him with his easy child . make him a few cds or something. As for xmas Ill buy a g/cert for them to have dinner somewhere nice like olive garden. [/QUOTE]
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