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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 178743" data-attributes="member: 393"><p><strong>TM,</strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>This is such an emotional situation for our difficult children & it triggers the mama bear in all of us.</strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>kt has been through this countless times - we've talked about her hurt feelings. We've also discussed how the "bully" needs to make themselves feel better & more important by hurting others. kt cannot stop that person, she can, however learn to change her reactions to it.</strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>kt has learned to walk away; she's also learned to laugh along (even though she's hurt). AND this has taken years.</strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>Duckie is of an age where it's almost always better to have a group of 2 or 4; never an uneven number where someone can gang up on the rest.</strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>I've noted that even the respite home kt attends keeps the kids in even numbers. It's just a better idea with girls. </strong></p><p><strong></strong></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 178743, member: 393"] [B]TM, This is such an emotional situation for our difficult children & it triggers the mama bear in all of us. kt has been through this countless times - we've talked about her hurt feelings. We've also discussed how the "bully" needs to make themselves feel better & more important by hurting others. kt cannot stop that person, she can, however learn to change her reactions to it. kt has learned to walk away; she's also learned to laugh along (even though she's hurt). AND this has taken years. Duckie is of an age where it's almost always better to have a group of 2 or 4; never an uneven number where someone can gang up on the rest. I've noted that even the respite home kt attends keeps the kids in even numbers. It's just a better idea with girls. [/B] [/QUOTE]
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