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What do you do with the sadness?
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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 413176" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>I am so glad you got to see a picture of your son and that he looks good. </p><p></p><p>The sadness is at times unbearable for me. My husband travels a lot and I am left alone with my thoughts and fears. Thankfully easy child has stayed home on the nights he has traveled since difficult child left. She often stays at her boyfriend's during the week. She has been a great comfort to me, but during the day when I was so busy before with two kids at home, I am now left thinking about what difficult child is doing and whether she is alive or dead.</p><p></p><p>I think you did good by getting involved in the play. I have to find something to keep my mind off my difficult child. I am facebook friends with a few of her old good friends and it is sad when I see what they are doing and how normal their life is. The good thing is that they are so nice to me and have told me that they feel terrible for us (they like us and they understand difficult child is troubled). I look back on all the things difficult child missed out on and I worry about her finding a legitimate job also. Right now she is dancing in a strip club and probably doing worse things for money. I don't think she will ever re-enter normal society.</p><p></p><p>I'm sorry you are sad. I sure do understand that sadness, so you are not alone. All we can do is walk through the pain until it gets easier.</p><p></p><p>Hugs,</p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 413176, member: 59"] I am so glad you got to see a picture of your son and that he looks good. The sadness is at times unbearable for me. My husband travels a lot and I am left alone with my thoughts and fears. Thankfully easy child has stayed home on the nights he has traveled since difficult child left. She often stays at her boyfriend's during the week. She has been a great comfort to me, but during the day when I was so busy before with two kids at home, I am now left thinking about what difficult child is doing and whether she is alive or dead. I think you did good by getting involved in the play. I have to find something to keep my mind off my difficult child. I am facebook friends with a few of her old good friends and it is sad when I see what they are doing and how normal their life is. The good thing is that they are so nice to me and have told me that they feel terrible for us (they like us and they understand difficult child is troubled). I look back on all the things difficult child missed out on and I worry about her finding a legitimate job also. Right now she is dancing in a strip club and probably doing worse things for money. I don't think she will ever re-enter normal society. I'm sorry you are sad. I sure do understand that sadness, so you are not alone. All we can do is walk through the pain until it gets easier. Hugs, Nancy [/QUOTE]
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