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What do you know about Borderline Personality Disorder?
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<blockquote data-quote="DaisyFace" data-source="post: 401344" data-attributes="member: 6546"><p>Janet--</p><p> </p><p>Thank you so much for sharing this! I'm so sorry that you are going through a hard time right now...</p><p> </p><p>And in a way - that is what makes Borderline (BPD) so baffling for me. The example of being upset that someone is late coming home is a typical reaction for anybody. How many times have we all worried that a loved one was in a ditch somewhere - only to find out they were at a friend's house or stopped at the store and forgot to call. And then we don't know whether to "kiss them or kill them" once they have arrived home. And so we yell "<em>Well the **** have you been? I have been worried sick!!!".</em> This, I understand.</p><p> </p><p>I don't understand yelling about things that have nothing to do with being late.</p><p> </p><p>I don't understand when the person who was upset then turns around and does the exact same thing to others - goes out for hours on end without a call.</p><p> </p><p>I don't understand how nothing - no amount of apology or anything else can "appease" the person with Borderline (BPD).</p><p> </p><p>I would <em>like</em> to understand...</p><p> </p><p>That's why I appreciate your sharing this so much. Thank you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DaisyFace, post: 401344, member: 6546"] Janet-- Thank you so much for sharing this! I'm so sorry that you are going through a hard time right now... And in a way - that is what makes Borderline (BPD) so baffling for me. The example of being upset that someone is late coming home is a typical reaction for anybody. How many times have we all worried that a loved one was in a ditch somewhere - only to find out they were at a friend's house or stopped at the store and forgot to call. And then we don't know whether to "kiss them or kill them" once they have arrived home. And so we yell "[I]Well the **** have you been? I have been worried sick!!!".[/I] This, I understand. I don't understand yelling about things that have nothing to do with being late. I don't understand when the person who was upset then turns around and does the exact same thing to others - goes out for hours on end without a call. I don't understand how nothing - no amount of apology or anything else can "appease" the person with Borderline (BPD). I would [I]like[/I] to understand... That's why I appreciate your sharing this so much. Thank you. [/QUOTE]
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