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<blockquote data-quote="meowbunny" data-source="post: 173889" data-attributes="member: 3626"><p>There MIGHT be attachment issues but not because you're a working mother. Premies can end up with attachment issues. It is not the fault of the mother, the father, the hospital or the child. It is the simple fact that they cannot be held at first. Please don't misunderstand, I am not saying your son has any attachment issues but, if he does, I'd lay odds on it being due to his being a premie. </p><p> </p><p>I'm hoping that this MA is now history since you say it was his first behavior specialist. I am so tired of therapists taking the easy way out to come up with specious twaddle designed to make parents feel guilty for no good reason. This idiot puts one of the most heinous Dxes on a little one after one visit (it usually takes years or at least several months to come up with any attachment diagnosis because they mimic so many other Dxes) and then puts the blame on you working????!!!!!! Tell the DA (dumb arse) to shove his ignorant, biased, uninformed and ill-advised diagnosis where the sun don't shine. (Sorry, I'm not in a good mood this morning and have little patience for stupidity and this is HIGH stupidity.)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="meowbunny, post: 173889, member: 3626"] There MIGHT be attachment issues but not because you're a working mother. Premies can end up with attachment issues. It is not the fault of the mother, the father, the hospital or the child. It is the simple fact that they cannot be held at first. Please don't misunderstand, I am not saying your son has any attachment issues but, if he does, I'd lay odds on it being due to his being a premie. I'm hoping that this MA is now history since you say it was his first behavior specialist. I am so tired of therapists taking the easy way out to come up with specious twaddle designed to make parents feel guilty for no good reason. This idiot puts one of the most heinous Dxes on a little one after one visit (it usually takes years or at least several months to come up with any attachment diagnosis because they mimic so many other Dxes) and then puts the blame on you working????!!!!!! Tell the DA (dumb arse) to shove his ignorant, biased, uninformed and ill-advised diagnosis where the sun don't shine. (Sorry, I'm not in a good mood this morning and have little patience for stupidity and this is HIGH stupidity.) [/QUOTE]
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