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What kind of kid says he hopes you die?
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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 347206" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>"Mum, you missed a spot."</p><p></p><p>"Yeah, I know son. Here's the cloth - I was leaving it for you."</p><p></p><p>I'm a bit concerned at his "I wish you would die" comments. Especially at the same time (almost the same breath) as he's asking you for money. Could he be thinking that if you die, he gets a share in the estate (and hence money)? In which case - I would ensure your wills are iron-clad that any money left to him (as in, his share) is not going to be released to him until he's 25, or some other similar age. Make it as far in the future as you can, legally. Then make sure he knows. And don't tell him who is the executor of the will.</p><p></p><p>That way it is in his interests for you and husband to remain alive.</p><p></p><p>Just one way to head off the "I want you dead" ideas as well as the extreme selfishness you get in narcissism/ASPD.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 347206, member: 1991"] "Mum, you missed a spot." "Yeah, I know son. Here's the cloth - I was leaving it for you." I'm a bit concerned at his "I wish you would die" comments. Especially at the same time (almost the same breath) as he's asking you for money. Could he be thinking that if you die, he gets a share in the estate (and hence money)? In which case - I would ensure your wills are iron-clad that any money left to him (as in, his share) is not going to be released to him until he's 25, or some other similar age. Make it as far in the future as you can, legally. Then make sure he knows. And don't tell him who is the executor of the will. That way it is in his interests for you and husband to remain alive. Just one way to head off the "I want you dead" ideas as well as the extreme selfishness you get in narcissism/ASPD. Marg [/QUOTE]
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