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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 214471" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Oh, Linda, I don't know what Plan B might be, but it sure does not sound like a good thing.</p><p> </p><p>I think you need to call the therapist, and maybe you and husband need to see him together, or maybe you just need to talk together.</p><p> </p><p>Personally I would be quite upset if the therapist braoched a plan b with-o talking to both of you together. I think that is WRONG. You BOTH are the parents of hte tweedles and you BOTH are responsible for your family. </p><p> </p><p>It really is tough when one partner is very ill, esp for a long time. I am going through it with MY spouse. But NEVER would we let a doctor come up with a Plan B for us, with-o us talking about it.</p><p> </p><p>Is husband drinking? I see that he is denying it, but am not sure what besides his behavior makes you think he is. Is he taking his medications? You should be able to figure that out by the dates on the refills from the pharmacy. Heck, the insurance statements should show the refill dates.</p><p> </p><p>You may be acting "crazy" and not knowing it. Is this a possibility with the prednisone and other medications and the physical problems? You may need to allow a little "slack" for yourself or for him. I don't know, but I DO know prednisone can make a person rather irrational. </p><p> </p><p>I am sending good vibes and keeping all of you inmy prayers. </p><p> </p><p>The other thing that came to mind is that maybe husband thinks the tweedles should not see each other again period, or thougth that decision had been made and was blindsided by the therapist and the suggestions htat he do something more or different so that they could see each other.</p><p> </p><p>Many hugs for all of you. I am so sorry this has happened.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 214471, member: 1233"] Oh, Linda, I don't know what Plan B might be, but it sure does not sound like a good thing. I think you need to call the therapist, and maybe you and husband need to see him together, or maybe you just need to talk together. Personally I would be quite upset if the therapist braoched a plan b with-o talking to both of you together. I think that is WRONG. You BOTH are the parents of hte tweedles and you BOTH are responsible for your family. It really is tough when one partner is very ill, esp for a long time. I am going through it with MY spouse. But NEVER would we let a doctor come up with a Plan B for us, with-o us talking about it. Is husband drinking? I see that he is denying it, but am not sure what besides his behavior makes you think he is. Is he taking his medications? You should be able to figure that out by the dates on the refills from the pharmacy. Heck, the insurance statements should show the refill dates. You may be acting "crazy" and not knowing it. Is this a possibility with the prednisone and other medications and the physical problems? You may need to allow a little "slack" for yourself or for him. I don't know, but I DO know prednisone can make a person rather irrational. I am sending good vibes and keeping all of you inmy prayers. The other thing that came to mind is that maybe husband thinks the tweedles should not see each other again period, or thougth that decision had been made and was blindsided by the therapist and the suggestions htat he do something more or different so that they could see each other. Many hugs for all of you. I am so sorry this has happened. [/QUOTE]
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