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<blockquote data-quote="saving grace" data-source="post: 80513" data-attributes="member: 1538"><p>Karen, it sounds to me that he had a stab of insecurity about feeling left out. He probably doesnt realize that in the past all plans were made through you, they just happened for all he was concerned. </p><p>I actually think that his brothers could reach out to him and let him know they are there for him and not taking sides, to me that would only be fair. regardless of what he did they are his siblings. Yes, the phone goes both ways but remember he could be embarrassed because he knows that they know what he did etc.. its a guy thing they dont "have it" when it comes to stuff like that. </p><p>I think he called the sister in law because she is a women and guys dont ask guys about stuff like that so he probably didnt know how to ask them. </p><p></p><p>I dont want to make excuses for him but I think he is starting to see what he is losing and is grasping at some normalcy in his life. I also dont think the quick dinner was a bad idea.</p><p></p><p>you have a long way to go but your going and thats what's important, as long as that is kept upfront you can be friends.</p><p></p><p>Grace</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="saving grace, post: 80513, member: 1538"] Karen, it sounds to me that he had a stab of insecurity about feeling left out. He probably doesnt realize that in the past all plans were made through you, they just happened for all he was concerned. I actually think that his brothers could reach out to him and let him know they are there for him and not taking sides, to me that would only be fair. regardless of what he did they are his siblings. Yes, the phone goes both ways but remember he could be embarrassed because he knows that they know what he did etc.. its a guy thing they dont "have it" when it comes to stuff like that. I think he called the sister in law because she is a women and guys dont ask guys about stuff like that so he probably didnt know how to ask them. I dont want to make excuses for him but I think he is starting to see what he is losing and is grasping at some normalcy in his life. I also dont think the quick dinner was a bad idea. you have a long way to go but your going and thats what's important, as long as that is kept upfront you can be friends. Grace [/QUOTE]
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