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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 97582" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>These are the hard times, especially when you are not ready to give up. Actually, it's a bit of a help to let go, because you have to accept that these are not things that you can know or understand.</p><p></p><p>Your son's attorney represents your son, and by law can not communicate anything with you. Even if you were paying his fee, he can't answer even the most basic questions. He could lose his license. </p><p></p><p>It's fine to remember when he was a child, but the key word there is "was". He's not a child anymore. You need to remember that he "is" and adult. You are right, he should know better. But these <em>are</em> his decisions. It's not like he doesn't know better. Maybe his tolerance for pain is higher than yours. He's not you, and you can't make these decisions for him.</p><p></p><p>Logically, this <em>is</em> a fear that you will get past. You will either be miserable every day of your life until this is resolved, or you won't, but it will pass. Time passes and things change. The question is will you change with it?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 97582, member: 99"] These are the hard times, especially when you are not ready to give up. Actually, it's a bit of a help to let go, because you have to accept that these are not things that you can know or understand. Your son's attorney represents your son, and by law can not communicate anything with you. Even if you were paying his fee, he can't answer even the most basic questions. He could lose his license. It's fine to remember when he was a child, but the key word there is "was". He's not a child anymore. You need to remember that he "is" and adult. You are right, he should know better. But these [i]are[/i] his decisions. It's not like he doesn't know better. Maybe his tolerance for pain is higher than yours. He's not you, and you can't make these decisions for him. Logically, this [i]is[/i] a fear that you will get past. You will either be miserable every day of your life until this is resolved, or you won't, but it will pass. Time passes and things change. The question is will you change with it? [/QUOTE]
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