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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 431799" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>Well, not sure what I'd do yet, because there is probably more to the story...</p><p> </p><p></p><p>Is this a change from his usual pattern? or just a slow-and-steady escalation over many months?</p><p> </p><p>If its a recent change, I'd take it as a MAJOR red flag that there is something going wrong... either in his relationship with the neighbor lady, OR at school. Or, it could be that because he's growing and developing, his medications might need adjustments... Either way, it would be more important to get to the bottom of the source than to "punish" - not that paying part of it back isn't a good idea, but that's not meant as punishment, its meant to be "logical consequences"...</p><p> </p><p>If its a longer-term trend, then... its more difficult to make assumptions... We've had it both ways - and in every single case, there was "something else" going on, usually at school.</p><p> </p><p>Do you have access to resources who can help you get to the bottom of it?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 431799, member: 11791"] Well, not sure what I'd do yet, because there is probably more to the story... Is this a change from his usual pattern? or just a slow-and-steady escalation over many months? If its a recent change, I'd take it as a MAJOR red flag that there is something going wrong... either in his relationship with the neighbor lady, OR at school. Or, it could be that because he's growing and developing, his medications might need adjustments... Either way, it would be more important to get to the bottom of the source than to "punish" - not that paying part of it back isn't a good idea, but that's not meant as punishment, its meant to be "logical consequences"... If its a longer-term trend, then... its more difficult to make assumptions... We've had it both ways - and in every single case, there was "something else" going on, usually at school. Do you have access to resources who can help you get to the bottom of it? [/QUOTE]
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