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<blockquote data-quote="Andy" data-source="post: 383776" data-attributes="member: 5096"><p>I would think this new change in moods would cut back the eligibility of overnights. He may be mad and use it against you but I would lean toward NOT taking him overnight until he can be respectful again.</p><p> </p><p>It would not be healthy to you or him if there is a problem in the car or at your parents.</p><p> </p><p>Postponing a promise until a safer time is o.k. to do. There are boundaries that he needs to show that he can stay inside before visiting priviledges can be obtained. One boundary is respect toward you - creating a visiting attitude that makes you feel safe and at peace. Fullfilling a promise that will just add to uneased feelings and fears just because it was a promise is not beneficial to anyone.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Andy, post: 383776, member: 5096"] I would think this new change in moods would cut back the eligibility of overnights. He may be mad and use it against you but I would lean toward NOT taking him overnight until he can be respectful again. It would not be healthy to you or him if there is a problem in the car or at your parents. Postponing a promise until a safer time is o.k. to do. There are boundaries that he needs to show that he can stay inside before visiting priviledges can be obtained. One boundary is respect toward you - creating a visiting attitude that makes you feel safe and at peace. Fullfilling a promise that will just add to uneased feelings and fears just because it was a promise is not beneficial to anyone. [/QUOTE]
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