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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 506633" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Jean.....does he want you to talk out loud about bowling? He somewhat sounds like me when I was hypomanic in my younger and more pain free days. Tony was more in your shoes in the fact that he just couldnt keep up with my need for talking about bowling. I had some different interests and didnt particularly want to dress up but the wanting to talk and play acting was intense. Just being us wasnt good enough. In reality, it still isnt but I think that may be because of my sexual abuse...not sure. I think I have always been messed up in that way from early on. I dont know if your husband has that in his past or not. If he does, it will be even harder. I will say that solo bowling is something that I dont think you should feel badly about because it doesnt mean he loves you any less. I know it didnt for me. It just meant it filled a need that Tony couldnt fill no matter what he could attempt. </p><p></p><p>Just my take.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 506633, member: 1514"] Jean.....does he want you to talk out loud about bowling? He somewhat sounds like me when I was hypomanic in my younger and more pain free days. Tony was more in your shoes in the fact that he just couldnt keep up with my need for talking about bowling. I had some different interests and didnt particularly want to dress up but the wanting to talk and play acting was intense. Just being us wasnt good enough. In reality, it still isnt but I think that may be because of my sexual abuse...not sure. I think I have always been messed up in that way from early on. I dont know if your husband has that in his past or not. If he does, it will be even harder. I will say that solo bowling is something that I dont think you should feel badly about because it doesnt mean he loves you any less. I know it didnt for me. It just meant it filled a need that Tony couldnt fill no matter what he could attempt. Just my take. [/QUOTE]
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