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<blockquote data-quote="Re1096" data-source="post: 388632"><p>answering questions</p><p></p><p>1. How long did your daughter live with your mother? 7 years. </p><p>2. Under what circumstances did she go to live with your mother? I was fresh out of college single mom with 3 kids under 8. It was a huge MESS. My mother agreed to take the older two kids as they were in grade school at the time. Leaving me with ADHD, Aspie kid which took full time dealing with. </p><p>3. Is your mother willing to take her back? NO... that is one of the points.. she has plenty of criticism to deal out.. but no advice and NOT willing to take her back. </p><p>4. Is she your husband's daughter as well? He adopted both of the younger children. Oldest was in high school and didn't want to change his name. He is willing to let her move in with him but due to a drug and alcohol issue I don't see how that can work.. another point my mother has thrown in my face. I can't send her there because he can't take care of himself. </p><p>5. If not, where is her dad? sperm donor is literally living in a DUMP.. a landfill.. in the back of a 18 wheel trailer. </p><p>6. Who has legal custody of her? my mother has legal custody but will not take her back. </p><p>7. Have you spoken with the school about possible residential placement? Will they fund it? School knows of the issues but as far as we can tell they have no affiliation with any help. </p><p></p><p>Over the weekend the mother where she is has decided that difficult child's move back date will be January 1. I am a freaking MESS just thinking about it. husband said he would fix a bedroom for her there so that if she caused trouble for easy child that she would have an immediate place to go. I thought it was a good idea.. my mother just screamed bloody murder at me about it. </p><p></p><p>To which I replied in an email because I hung up on her.. that if she had nothing but criticism to give please just keep it to yourself unless you want her back. If that is the case then HAVE AT IT. </p><p></p><p>Please tell me that this all ends somewhere.. cause right now I see no light..</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Re1096, post: 388632"] answering questions 1. How long did your daughter live with your mother? 7 years. 2. Under what circumstances did she go to live with your mother? I was fresh out of college single mom with 3 kids under 8. It was a huge MESS. My mother agreed to take the older two kids as they were in grade school at the time. Leaving me with ADHD, Aspie kid which took full time dealing with. 3. Is your mother willing to take her back? NO... that is one of the points.. she has plenty of criticism to deal out.. but no advice and NOT willing to take her back. 4. Is she your husband's daughter as well? He adopted both of the younger children. Oldest was in high school and didn't want to change his name. He is willing to let her move in with him but due to a drug and alcohol issue I don't see how that can work.. another point my mother has thrown in my face. I can't send her there because he can't take care of himself. 5. If not, where is her dad? sperm donor is literally living in a DUMP.. a landfill.. in the back of a 18 wheel trailer. 6. Who has legal custody of her? my mother has legal custody but will not take her back. 7. Have you spoken with the school about possible residential placement? Will they fund it? School knows of the issues but as far as we can tell they have no affiliation with any help. Over the weekend the mother where she is has decided that difficult child's move back date will be January 1. I am a freaking MESS just thinking about it. husband said he would fix a bedroom for her there so that if she caused trouble for easy child that she would have an immediate place to go. I thought it was a good idea.. my mother just screamed bloody murder at me about it. To which I replied in an email because I hung up on her.. that if she had nothing but criticism to give please just keep it to yourself unless you want her back. If that is the case then HAVE AT IT. Please tell me that this all ends somewhere.. cause right now I see no light.. [/QUOTE]
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