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"Why Are You Mad At Me?"
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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 585314" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>Bunny... </p><p></p><p>*I* understand where you are coming from.</p><p>difficult child will not.</p><p></p><p>HE has moved on. Funny how that works... the stuff that WE see as a problem, they move on from quickly, but if it's a problem to THEM... well, you Know what I mean?.</p><p></p><p>But for this kind of stuff? </p><p>I had to really learn how to park my anger, resentment, and other negative feelings.</p><p>I have to KEEP my vigilance and sensitivity, which still bug difficult child, but there is a logic to that... you do X, Y or Z and I have to be extra careful to see it coming next time. But still being upset about it? If I do... things escalate again REALLY fast. It's in MY best interests to drop the negative load really fast.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 585314, member: 11791"] Bunny... *I* understand where you are coming from. difficult child will not. HE has moved on. Funny how that works... the stuff that WE see as a problem, they move on from quickly, but if it's a problem to THEM... well, you Know what I mean?. But for this kind of stuff? I had to really learn how to park my anger, resentment, and other negative feelings. I have to KEEP my vigilance and sensitivity, which still bug difficult child, but there is a logic to that... you do X, Y or Z and I have to be extra careful to see it coming next time. But still being upset about it? If I do... things escalate again REALLY fast. It's in MY best interests to drop the negative load really fast. [/QUOTE]
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