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Why can't husband just let things go? Controlling over daughter's schoolwork
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<blockquote data-quote="Giulia" data-source="post: 527459" data-attributes="member: 14306"><p>Hello allhaileris,</p><p>I will also suggest you to talk to the SW if you feel confident with the SW.</p><p>But if you don't think so, find someone else. If the SW is making anyone (you, husband or daughter) guilty, run away and find someone else.</p><p>I will also abide about being matter of fact, non judgmental. Like "Every time daughter does the homework with you, she gets into crisis. I notice that every time you force her to continue her maths homework, the crisis is getting worse. So, what other solutions can you propose to make homework a bearable time for daughter with you ?".</p><p>I will also go further with telling you that you have to put the contract written (because otherwise, your husband will discuss everything you have decided with the SW to come back to his old methods).</p><p>I will also go further with telling you that you need to think about two or three non negotiable behaviors around homework when husband had to deal with daughter's homework. And you stick to them all the time.</p><p>Would daughter agree to be there ?</p><p></p><p>I don't think it can harm either.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Hang in there, you're not alone.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Giulia, post: 527459, member: 14306"] Hello allhaileris, I will also suggest you to talk to the SW if you feel confident with the SW. But if you don't think so, find someone else. If the SW is making anyone (you, husband or daughter) guilty, run away and find someone else. I will also abide about being matter of fact, non judgmental. Like "Every time daughter does the homework with you, she gets into crisis. I notice that every time you force her to continue her maths homework, the crisis is getting worse. So, what other solutions can you propose to make homework a bearable time for daughter with you ?". I will also go further with telling you that you have to put the contract written (because otherwise, your husband will discuss everything you have decided with the SW to come back to his old methods). I will also go further with telling you that you need to think about two or three non negotiable behaviors around homework when husband had to deal with daughter's homework. And you stick to them all the time. Would daughter agree to be there ? I don't think it can harm either. Hang in there, you're not alone. [/QUOTE]
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