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<blockquote data-quote="LittleDudesMom" data-source="post: 205668" data-attributes="member: 805"><p>Good Morning Jennifer.</p><p> </p><p>Ok, Here is your final paragraph from a post you made yesterday in which you asked me a question. I want you to read it. Then I want you to read it again. Before you read any further, ask yourself if is is clear and makes sense or if it is all over there?</p><p> </p><p> </p><p> </p><p> </p><p> </p><p>I understand that you are asking if anxiety and adhd combined can cause you to have "all over the place thoughts". I'm sorry, I can't really say. I know, for my difficult child with adhd and anxiety, when he is really, really, really, nervous about something, he may ramble, but usually it's the opposite and he closes down. And, it is not something that affects every single part of his life. It's situation by situation. Because he is anxious about something one day, it does not translate into random anxiety the next day. But, that is my difficult child.</p><p> </p><p>I think you are also asking me what sounds outside the box in your thread? Well, the whole thing really. The thoughts fly from one thing to another - the punctuation comes and goes - the sentence structure comes and goes - capitalization comes and goes - random thoughts pop in - two unrelated thoughts are strung together without meaning. I think that is why one of the posters suggested your boyfriend read the posts. Since he knows you, he could give an opinion as to whether you are getting your points across to us.</p><p> </p><p>You know Jennifer, it's really tough to get to know someone on a board. There are some of us that have been on here for quite some time that have had the opportunity to meet each other. Sometimes they are exactly as you thought, and other times they are the total opposite. All we have is our words here. When someone posts a clear and caring posts, folks make a judgement about that person. When someone makes a post filled with random thoughts that make little sense, folks make a judgement about that person as well.</p><p> </p><p>You certainly have been through the ringer. I believe what is of the uppermost importance right now is that <strong>YOU</strong> take care of you. You are seeing a doctor - is that doing any good for you? Has there been discussion of medications for you? It's really hard to parent our difficult children when we are having issues similiar to what they are dealing with!</p><p> </p><p>I certainly want you to find support and advice here. I don't want you to feel that we are "ganging up" on you. Sometimes it takes those outside a situation to get the clearest picture. </p><p> </p><p>You asked for honesty. I did my best to give it to you. I hope today is a better day for difficult child and for you. Take care.</p><p> </p><p>Sharon</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="LittleDudesMom, post: 205668, member: 805"] Good Morning Jennifer. Ok, Here is your final paragraph from a post you made yesterday in which you asked me a question. I want you to read it. Then I want you to read it again. Before you read any further, ask yourself if is is clear and makes sense or if it is all over there? I understand that you are asking if anxiety and adhd combined can cause you to have "all over the place thoughts". I'm sorry, I can't really say. I know, for my difficult child with adhd and anxiety, when he is really, really, really, nervous about something, he may ramble, but usually it's the opposite and he closes down. And, it is not something that affects every single part of his life. It's situation by situation. Because he is anxious about something one day, it does not translate into random anxiety the next day. But, that is my difficult child. I think you are also asking me what sounds outside the box in your thread? Well, the whole thing really. The thoughts fly from one thing to another - the punctuation comes and goes - the sentence structure comes and goes - capitalization comes and goes - random thoughts pop in - two unrelated thoughts are strung together without meaning. I think that is why one of the posters suggested your boyfriend read the posts. Since he knows you, he could give an opinion as to whether you are getting your points across to us. You know Jennifer, it's really tough to get to know someone on a board. There are some of us that have been on here for quite some time that have had the opportunity to meet each other. Sometimes they are exactly as you thought, and other times they are the total opposite. All we have is our words here. When someone posts a clear and caring posts, folks make a judgement about that person. When someone makes a post filled with random thoughts that make little sense, folks make a judgement about that person as well. You certainly have been through the ringer. I believe what is of the uppermost importance right now is that [B]YOU[/B] take care of you. You are seeing a doctor - is that doing any good for you? Has there been discussion of medications for you? It's really hard to parent our difficult children when we are having issues similiar to what they are dealing with! I certainly want you to find support and advice here. I don't want you to feel that we are "ganging up" on you. Sometimes it takes those outside a situation to get the clearest picture. You asked for honesty. I did my best to give it to you. I hope today is a better day for difficult child and for you. Take care. Sharon [/QUOTE]
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