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Why do they lie, when we dont even ask them too?
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<blockquote data-quote="jbrain" data-source="post: 50981" data-attributes="member: 3450"><p>Jen,</p><p>agreeing with all the others and what Kris said is so true--the longer you stay financially involved the harder it is to detach. I am no longer "helping" my dtr with financial stuff so now I really don't care if she lies to me or not--it doesn't impact me in any way--I don't feel taken advantage of, I don't have to check up on her to see if she is telling the truth, I can take everything she says at face value because I am not in danger of being used and manipulated. We actually have quite a nice relationship now since I am not allowing her to use me and she feels good about taking care of herself (even if I don't see eye to eye with her on what that means). Believe me, you will feel so much less stressed if you disentangle yourself from him!</p><p>Hugs,</p><p>Jane</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jbrain, post: 50981, member: 3450"] Jen, agreeing with all the others and what Kris said is so true--the longer you stay financially involved the harder it is to detach. I am no longer "helping" my dtr with financial stuff so now I really don't care if she lies to me or not--it doesn't impact me in any way--I don't feel taken advantage of, I don't have to check up on her to see if she is telling the truth, I can take everything she says at face value because I am not in danger of being used and manipulated. We actually have quite a nice relationship now since I am not allowing her to use me and she feels good about taking care of herself (even if I don't see eye to eye with her on what that means). Believe me, you will feel so much less stressed if you disentangle yourself from him! Hugs, Jane [/QUOTE]
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