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<blockquote data-quote="siobhan123" data-source="post: 182342" data-attributes="member: 5701"><p>This is a question I seem to be asking myself more and more. My relationship with my boyfriend (of 9 years) has gotten worse and worse. I feel like I run interference between him and everyone elso in my life. He constantly goes back and forth between being great and being downright nasty. I feel like I never get to do anything outside of the house unless I take the kids and if I do get to do something I have a 3 day guilt trip ahead of me when I get back.</p><p>Some say that he's self centered and I should just get over it, some say he's mentally abusive and I should get out of it. I feel like there is a 50/50 split between the good times and the bad. There has never been any physical abuse and he doen't act controlling just rude and sarcastic. I wish that our life could go back to the way it was before we had so much to deal with. Sometimes I feel like my life is out of control. Most days I feel like throwinig up my hands an quitting, but I remember that I have 2 kids to take care of and that deep down we both love each other and are just so overwhelmed that we take it out on each other. Still I don't want to live like that forever, do you think I'm settling for less that I should?</p><p>I just want to get off the roller coaster because I feel a little queezy I think...</p><p>Siobhan</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="siobhan123, post: 182342, member: 5701"] This is a question I seem to be asking myself more and more. My relationship with my boyfriend (of 9 years) has gotten worse and worse. I feel like I run interference between him and everyone elso in my life. He constantly goes back and forth between being great and being downright nasty. I feel like I never get to do anything outside of the house unless I take the kids and if I do get to do something I have a 3 day guilt trip ahead of me when I get back. Some say that he's self centered and I should just get over it, some say he's mentally abusive and I should get out of it. I feel like there is a 50/50 split between the good times and the bad. There has never been any physical abuse and he doen't act controlling just rude and sarcastic. I wish that our life could go back to the way it was before we had so much to deal with. Sometimes I feel like my life is out of control. Most days I feel like throwinig up my hands an quitting, but I remember that I have 2 kids to take care of and that deep down we both love each other and are just so overwhelmed that we take it out on each other. Still I don't want to live like that forever, do you think I'm settling for less that I should? I just want to get off the roller coaster because I feel a little queezy I think... Siobhan [/QUOTE]
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