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<blockquote data-quote="AmIAFool" data-source="post: 614401" data-attributes="member: 17434"><p>Thank you so much for your reply, your advice and the link to the article about detactment. I see so much of myself in the articles that I am now feeling as if I am enabling my husband to be the enabler HE is, especially as evidenced in this statement: "<span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'">Will most probably put off making a decision and following through on it, if you rationally recognize your relationship with a person, place or thing is unhealthy and the only recourse left is to get out of the relationship." I have been on my way out the door for years, but keep staying and staying and staying, thinking it has got to get better someday and that my husband has got to have a breaking point or a limit to how long he will let this go on.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'">Although he HAS been doing better than he was, as evidenced by the latest financial fiasco(s) in which I'm sure he gave Son #3 money for his battery and the fact that he won't confront son #4 about returning the money he owes us and just keeps accepting the lame excuses, I don't foresee that this will ever truly end.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: #000000"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'"></span></span><p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: #000000"></span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: #000000"></span></p><p>Wow, what a messed up ordeal this marriage is turning out to be.</p><p></p><p>I will share the article with my husband and see what happens. Thanks again for your help! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AmIAFool, post: 614401, member: 17434"] Thank you so much for your reply, your advice and the link to the article about detactment. I see so much of myself in the articles that I am now feeling as if I am enabling my husband to be the enabler HE is, especially as evidenced in this statement: "[COLOR=#000000][FONT=Times New Roman]Will most probably put off making a decision and following through on it, if you rationally recognize your relationship with a person, place or thing is unhealthy and the only recourse left is to get out of the relationship." I have been on my way out the door for years, but keep staying and staying and staying, thinking it has got to get better someday and that my husband has got to have a breaking point or a limit to how long he will let this go on. Although he HAS been doing better than he was, as evidenced by the latest financial fiasco(s) in which I'm sure he gave Son #3 money for his battery and the fact that he won't confront son #4 about returning the money he owes us and just keeps accepting the lame excuses, I don't foresee that this will ever truly end. [/FONT][/COLOR][LEFT][COLOR=#000000] [/COLOR][/LEFT] Wow, what a messed up ordeal this marriage is turning out to be. I will share the article with my husband and see what happens. Thanks again for your help! :) [/QUOTE]
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