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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 614435" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Codependency is very similar to any addiction, it is the addiction to enabling. You may want to read Codependent no more by Melody Beattie. You are enabling him to enable his kids and it is taking a huge toll on your health. </p><p></p><p>*My advice for you is to seek professional help for both you and husband and if he doesn't go to get help for yourself so you can extricate yourself from this extremely unhealthy situation. I am very sorry. Change is scary and difficult for us humans, however, you deserve more then this, you deserve to have not only peace of mind, but joy and a sense of being heard and valued by your husband. Make different choices which offer different results. Sometimes we need outside help to make those choices. I wish you serenity.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 614435, member: 13542"] Codependency is very similar to any addiction, it is the addiction to enabling. You may want to read Codependent no more by Melody Beattie. You are enabling him to enable his kids and it is taking a huge toll on your health. *My advice for you is to seek professional help for both you and husband and if he doesn't go to get help for yourself so you can extricate yourself from this extremely unhealthy situation. I am very sorry. Change is scary and difficult for us humans, however, you deserve more then this, you deserve to have not only peace of mind, but joy and a sense of being heard and valued by your husband. Make different choices which offer different results. Sometimes we need outside help to make those choices. I wish you serenity. [/QUOTE]
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