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Withdrawing blessings on Diva's wedding
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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 535214" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>While she may have already spent a lot of money on this wedding, I'm assuming that a lot of it is deposits, or fully or partially refundable if she cancels within a certain number of days? Without a doubt, she'll spend more by August 11. Perhaps you can talk to her in terms of a budget?</p><p></p><p>husband and I were scheduled to be married on 8/21/85 in a big wedding with hundreds of guests. He backed out on me. He had cancellation notices printed up and sent them out. (<em>A very long and stupid story.</em>) We ended up marrying 1/28/86 at the County Courthouse during the Judge's lunch hour. There were 5 guests. We've been happily married ever since. The wedding day is not the important thing. I'll be honest - I would <em>much </em>rather have had the big wedding I had planned. But for whatever reason, husband was not ready at that time. What I have instead is a lifetime with the man I was meant to be with, and we love each other very much. In the long run, what happened 27 years ago is only a blip on the screen.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 535214, member: 99"] While she may have already spent a lot of money on this wedding, I'm assuming that a lot of it is deposits, or fully or partially refundable if she cancels within a certain number of days? Without a doubt, she'll spend more by August 11. Perhaps you can talk to her in terms of a budget? husband and I were scheduled to be married on 8/21/85 in a big wedding with hundreds of guests. He backed out on me. He had cancellation notices printed up and sent them out. ([I]A very long and stupid story.[/I]) We ended up marrying 1/28/86 at the County Courthouse during the Judge's lunch hour. There were 5 guests. We've been happily married ever since. The wedding day is not the important thing. I'll be honest - I would [I]much [/I]rather have had the big wedding I had planned. But for whatever reason, husband was not ready at that time. What I have instead is a lifetime with the man I was meant to be with, and we love each other very much. In the long run, what happened 27 years ago is only a blip on the screen. [/QUOTE]
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