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<blockquote data-quote="Andy" data-source="post: 537766" data-attributes="member: 5096"><p>Thank you all again! I wish she would have found someone like her dad to marry! One of her aunts told me that I can not decide what is best for her. Diva takes the stand that I over exaggerate. I hope I am but I know how I felt when I witnessed it. I don't want to become a monster in law (have you seen that show?) and I have talked to her several times about setting her standards and then standing by them. My focus is on her and making sure she not only gets what she wants out of life but also know that she can reject what she does not want. I don't put him down outside the statements that he gets angry too easily. But most the time it is in the "You do not need to put up with behavior from anyone." The ultimate decision is hers and I do not want to loose her over it - our relationship isn't strong enough for me to give a it's him or me ultimative, I am always her last choice in everything. So In our situation, it is best that she knows where I stand and that I am always here for her. She will continue to do her own way. I can only hope my words of advise reach her on some level and she stays safe. I feel that she is trying to figure out how to connect with me but has taken a step or two backwards over this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Andy, post: 537766, member: 5096"] Thank you all again! I wish she would have found someone like her dad to marry! One of her aunts told me that I can not decide what is best for her. Diva takes the stand that I over exaggerate. I hope I am but I know how I felt when I witnessed it. I don't want to become a monster in law (have you seen that show?) and I have talked to her several times about setting her standards and then standing by them. My focus is on her and making sure she not only gets what she wants out of life but also know that she can reject what she does not want. I don't put him down outside the statements that he gets angry too easily. But most the time it is in the "You do not need to put up with behavior from anyone." The ultimate decision is hers and I do not want to loose her over it - our relationship isn't strong enough for me to give a it's him or me ultimative, I am always her last choice in everything. So In our situation, it is best that she knows where I stand and that I am always here for her. She will continue to do her own way. I can only hope my words of advise reach her on some level and she stays safe. I feel that she is trying to figure out how to connect with me but has taken a step or two backwards over this. [/QUOTE]
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