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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 488273" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>As so often happens, you take a difficult situation and end up inspiring many of us! You have started so many positive steps - INCLUDING changing your focus from the tweedles to yourself. I know that feels very very strange but I am willing to bet that it will feel freeing and great in a few weeks/months when you have adjusted to it. They are almost adults and it is time for you to have an empty nest in your mind as well as your home, if that makes sense? You are still their mom, but they have to create their own lfie and now you have to go rediscover your own.</p><p></p><p>You have taken a lot of great early steps - NOT first steps because you are farther along than that even if it doesn't feel like it to you. You will again find things you like and things you don't. I have faith that you will find the things you want and need and will create a very satisfying life for yourself. I am sorry it has been so hard for you for the last years, but you are a very strong woman even if you cannot see it.</p><p></p><p>That song "Fight Like a Girl" is great - says a whole lot, in my opinion. </p><p>[MEDIA=youtube]V96r2046qjE[/MEDIA]</p><p></p><p>Go for It!!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 488273, member: 1233"] As so often happens, you take a difficult situation and end up inspiring many of us! You have started so many positive steps - INCLUDING changing your focus from the tweedles to yourself. I know that feels very very strange but I am willing to bet that it will feel freeing and great in a few weeks/months when you have adjusted to it. They are almost adults and it is time for you to have an empty nest in your mind as well as your home, if that makes sense? You are still their mom, but they have to create their own lfie and now you have to go rediscover your own. You have taken a lot of great early steps - NOT first steps because you are farther along than that even if it doesn't feel like it to you. You will again find things you like and things you don't. I have faith that you will find the things you want and need and will create a very satisfying life for yourself. I am sorry it has been so hard for you for the last years, but you are a very strong woman even if you cannot see it. That song "Fight Like a Girl" is great - says a whole lot, in my opinion. [MEDIA=youtube]V96r2046qjE[/MEDIA] Go for It!!!! [/QUOTE]
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