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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 694627" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Hi TL.</p><p></p><p>My quote machine is not working but I will do my best. My stomach is where I feel stress, too. You may have read about my black vomit!! I just had to share....I think the attitude you describe is a good one to adopt. He does know the whole drill now. He has contacts, and a support network should he decide to avail himself of it.</p><p></p><p>It is not so much that I think that our sons will likely die before us (although they may) it was that realization of how little anything I did or thought or wanted had any effect--unless my son wanted it. And for him to want it, I had to get out of the picture with<em> all my wanting.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p>If you or your son have trouble with this new stance I would tell him the truth:<em> I have realized I was getting in the way of your living your life the way you want to or need to. I am always here. We are always here, me and Dad. I love you and let us know what you decide and where you are. </em></p><p><em></em></p><p>I am tired, TL. Working long long days and I am old!!!</p><p><em></em></p><p><em></em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 694627, member: 18958"] Hi TL. My quote machine is not working but I will do my best. My stomach is where I feel stress, too. You may have read about my black vomit!! I just had to share....I think the attitude you describe is a good one to adopt. He does know the whole drill now. He has contacts, and a support network should he decide to avail himself of it. It is not so much that I think that our sons will likely die before us (although they may) it was that realization of how little anything I did or thought or wanted had any effect--unless my son wanted it. And for him to want it, I had to get out of the picture with[I] all my wanting. [/I] If you or your son have trouble with this new stance I would tell him the truth:[I] I have realized I was getting in the way of your living your life the way you want to or need to. I am always here. We are always here, me and Dad. I love you and let us know what you decide and where you are. [/I] I am tired, TL. Working long long days and I am old!!! [I] [/I] [/QUOTE]
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