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Yesterday was my toughest day
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<blockquote data-quote="TerryJ2" data-source="post: 76494" data-attributes="member: 3419"><p><em>Does any of this make sense??</em></p><p></p><p>Absolutely!!!!</p><p></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>take sometime to think about what I really want to do with the rest of my life, and I kind of feel like that part is being skipped over ... I guess that kind of makes me angry too, but he robbed me from dealing with my mothers death the way I was supposed to and now he's robbing me of dealing with this the way I wanted to.</em></p><p></p><p>That makes perfect sense. It reminds me of the way our mother raised us. Her emotions were legitimate. Ours didn't count. Definite codependency issues.</p><p>You are absolutely <span style="color: #FF6666"><strong><em>not</em></strong></span> responsible for his, or anyone's, emotions or reactions. Period. Repeat that. It will become your new mantra.</p><p>You've got a great life ahead of you. When you learn to separate yourself, you will be so much happier, and you will be amazed at the whole thing. It can't happen when you're in the middle of it. Give yourself time. Give yourself breathing space.</p><p></p><p> :bath:</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TerryJ2, post: 76494, member: 3419"] [i]Does any of this make sense??[/i] Absolutely!!!! [i] take sometime to think about what I really want to do with the rest of my life, and I kind of feel like that part is being skipped over ... I guess that kind of makes me angry too, but he robbed me from dealing with my mothers death the way I was supposed to and now he's robbing me of dealing with this the way I wanted to.[/i] That makes perfect sense. It reminds me of the way our mother raised us. Her emotions were legitimate. Ours didn't count. Definite codependency issues. You are absolutely <span style="color: #FF6666">[b][i]not[/i][/b]</span> responsible for his, or anyone's, emotions or reactions. Period. Repeat that. It will become your new mantra. You've got a great life ahead of you. When you learn to separate yourself, you will be so much happier, and you will be amazed at the whole thing. It can't happen when you're in the middle of it. Give yourself time. Give yourself breathing space. [img]:bath:[/img] [/QUOTE]
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