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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 76504" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>Sending hugs and admiration your way, my friend. You have hit the nail on the head! It is just like difficult child. You need to review</p><p>Detachment 101. You are not responsible for the decisions that</p><p>others make....not your adult son and absolutely not your legal</p><p>adult spouse. :hammer:</p><p></p><p>I had a friend about your age whose husband got arrested for DUI</p><p>three times! :rolleyes: She attended his court dates and the</p><p>local newspaper reporters followed her around trying to get her</p><p>to comment. Finally, when asked again and again, "how do you</p><p>explain x's poor choices?" Terri (who, by the way, is just about as</p><p>cute as you are) turned and flashed a big smile while she said</p><p>"this is the ONLY comment I am going to have" "I am not going to</p><p>try to explain x's choices...they ARE x's CHOICES. He is an adult. Remember, I didn't raise him...I just married him!"</p><p></p><p>At our house, on a lighter note, that is what I say when the boys</p><p>complain about husband's quirks. "Remember, I didn't raise him...I just married him!" :smile:</p><p></p><p>I'm saying a quick prayer that Tuesday comes faster than you can</p><p>imagine. Review your textbook. Do NOT let him make ANY choices</p><p>that involve you, your children or your assets. You have all the</p><p>time in the world to make sure your choices are yours. There is</p><p>NO rush......remember the AA saying "nice and easy". That is how</p><p>you need to take it! DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 76504, member: 35"] Sending hugs and admiration your way, my friend. You have hit the nail on the head! It is just like difficult child. You need to review Detachment 101. You are not responsible for the decisions that others make....not your adult son and absolutely not your legal adult spouse. [img]:hammer:[/img] I had a friend about your age whose husband got arrested for DUI three times! [img]:rolleyes:[/img] She attended his court dates and the local newspaper reporters followed her around trying to get her to comment. Finally, when asked again and again, "how do you explain x's poor choices?" Terri (who, by the way, is just about as cute as you are) turned and flashed a big smile while she said "this is the ONLY comment I am going to have" "I am not going to try to explain x's choices...they ARE x's CHOICES. He is an adult. Remember, I didn't raise him...I just married him!" At our house, on a lighter note, that is what I say when the boys complain about husband's quirks. "Remember, I didn't raise him...I just married him!" [img]:smile:[/img] I'm saying a quick prayer that Tuesday comes faster than you can imagine. Review your textbook. Do NOT let him make ANY choices that involve you, your children or your assets. You have all the time in the world to make sure your choices are yours. There is NO rush......remember the AA saying "nice and easy". That is how you need to take it! DDD [/QUOTE]
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