She said she hoped that difficult child 2 would not become too codependent. Well, he must be on some kind of high due to his successful intervention with his fiancée's mother. He has decided to take his older twin (yes, a twin can be older) under his wing. UGH! He is having him move into the house of fiancée's grandparents! This is a small condo, now there will be 6 people living in tight quarters. difficult child 1 will be sleeping on the living room couch (see, he's couch surfing again!). They have found him a girlfriend, will try to get him into a college, find him a job. In the space of one year #1 has gone through most of the large inheritance from my mother and has nothing to show for it, NOTHING. When I think of how hard people like Daysylover have to work to put themselves through college I feel like throttling that kid. I'm afraid this will take a huge toll on #2's relationship with his fiancée. What the heck are those g'parents thinking??? I must practice detaching, I couldn't sleep last night.