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<blockquote data-quote="mom23gsfg" data-source="post: 114705" data-attributes="member: 4445"><p>sounds like the same agruements me and my hub used to have when my step daughter was at home.every time id catch her into "something" and tell him it ws always "youre just lieing and trying to get her into trouble" then i tried the tactic of grounding her and telling him it was for a different reason than what it actually was so he wouldnt throw her out (he wouldnt have believed me anyways)and then she would go along with it and then unknown to my knowledge shed go and tell him that i didnt ground "my" daughter for the same thing and i just hated her...(but she would tell him whatever the thing was that we had decided on not "the truth"</p><p>and now that she is out of the home living with her boyfriend that is 28 yrs old and has been busted for drugs (she is 17..and we had caught her seeing this guy when she was 13 and put a stop to it or so we thought...she would lie and act like she was dating someone else)but when i caught her seeing him again he didnt believe me so he had to learn the hard way(she went and put marks on her wrist with a disposible razor and when her father caught her doing this he grabbed her arms and pushed her against the walll...the next day she went to school and told the guidance counselor that he had shoved her against the wall ...social services put her with her maternal grandparents (supposedly)until it was investigated...which it was and no abuse found (of course)</p><p>but in the end he decided to let her stay with them and later on we found out they where letting her live with the boyfriend and lieing to us saying she was staying there....</p><p>and through all of this the other day he told me it was my fault she had left ....that i just kept her in trouble because i hated her</p><p>me...the one that took and raised her like my own because her real mom abandoned her ..took her to the doctor when she was making herself sick...(he only thought she was doing it for attention)(yeh for 5 yrs ..i dont think so )took up for her when he wanted to kick her out for doing stuff with a guy that was married (differtent guy)and etc.</p><p>so what do you do? :grrr:</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mom23gsfg, post: 114705, member: 4445"] sounds like the same agruements me and my hub used to have when my step daughter was at home.every time id catch her into "something" and tell him it ws always "youre just lieing and trying to get her into trouble" then i tried the tactic of grounding her and telling him it was for a different reason than what it actually was so he wouldnt throw her out (he wouldnt have believed me anyways)and then she would go along with it and then unknown to my knowledge shed go and tell him that i didnt ground "my" daughter for the same thing and i just hated her...(but she would tell him whatever the thing was that we had decided on not "the truth" and now that she is out of the home living with her boyfriend that is 28 yrs old and has been busted for drugs (she is 17..and we had caught her seeing this guy when she was 13 and put a stop to it or so we thought...she would lie and act like she was dating someone else)but when i caught her seeing him again he didnt believe me so he had to learn the hard way(she went and put marks on her wrist with a disposible razor and when her father caught her doing this he grabbed her arms and pushed her against the walll...the next day she went to school and told the guidance counselor that he had shoved her against the wall ...social services put her with her maternal grandparents (supposedly)until it was investigated...which it was and no abuse found (of course) but in the end he decided to let her stay with them and later on we found out they where letting her live with the boyfriend and lieing to us saying she was staying there.... and through all of this the other day he told me it was my fault she had left ....that i just kept her in trouble because i hated her me...the one that took and raised her like my own because her real mom abandoned her ..took her to the doctor when she was making herself sick...(he only thought she was doing it for attention)(yeh for 5 yrs ..i dont think so )took up for her when he wanted to kick her out for doing stuff with a guy that was married (differtent guy)and etc. so what do you do? [img]:grrr:[/img] [/QUOTE]
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