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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 97658" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>Linda, here are some answers to rehearse in response to "We don't see that here at school."</p><p></p><p>A: Maybe that's because she doesn't feel safe enough at school to let her true feelings show.</p><p></p><p>A: We're dealing with her later in the day, while all the stresses and traumas of the day are being processed before bedtime.</p><p></p><p>A: She's not at school her whole existence, home is also a big part of her life. And if it's happening anywhere, it's a signal to stop whatever is triggering it.</p><p></p><p>A: Maybe we're more observant at home.</p><p></p><p>A: It's good that it's only happening at home. It means she's able to exert some self control for a little while. But for it to be happening anywhere - the triggers must be removed, as I forewarned you in the permission note.</p><p></p><p>A: If this were only happening at school you wouldn't be so complacent and you would be angry if I kept saying, "This doesn't happen at home."</p><p></p><p></p><p>And finally, as you said - "We agreed that with her history, if ANY problems arose that were even possibly connected with the sex ed class, then for kt the sex ed class had to stop. That was our agreement. I've got enough to worry about right now, without you trying to change what was originally laid down in the agreement."</p><p></p><p>Interestingly, easy child's sex abuse coincided with a campaign to have some level of sex ed (protective behaviour lessons) for kids in Kindergarten to Grade 2, at her school. And the parent most vocally against his child learning how to say no - the bloke whose son molested my daughter, in a way which told us he was probably molesting his son.</p><p></p><p>Linda, you know kt best. Don't let them browbeat you. And I think we can stop competing as to who is the worst mother - it's ALL of us!</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 97658, member: 1991"] Linda, here are some answers to rehearse in response to "We don't see that here at school." A: Maybe that's because she doesn't feel safe enough at school to let her true feelings show. A: We're dealing with her later in the day, while all the stresses and traumas of the day are being processed before bedtime. A: She's not at school her whole existence, home is also a big part of her life. And if it's happening anywhere, it's a signal to stop whatever is triggering it. A: Maybe we're more observant at home. A: It's good that it's only happening at home. It means she's able to exert some self control for a little while. But for it to be happening anywhere - the triggers must be removed, as I forewarned you in the permission note. A: If this were only happening at school you wouldn't be so complacent and you would be angry if I kept saying, "This doesn't happen at home." And finally, as you said - "We agreed that with her history, if ANY problems arose that were even possibly connected with the sex ed class, then for kt the sex ed class had to stop. That was our agreement. I've got enough to worry about right now, without you trying to change what was originally laid down in the agreement." Interestingly, easy child's sex abuse coincided with a campaign to have some level of sex ed (protective behaviour lessons) for kids in Kindergarten to Grade 2, at her school. And the parent most vocally against his child learning how to say no - the bloke whose son molested my daughter, in a way which told us he was probably molesting his son. Linda, you know kt best. Don't let them browbeat you. And I think we can stop competing as to who is the worst mother - it's ALL of us! Marg [/QUOTE]
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