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Youngest daughter (25) living with much older man (33 years older) not talking to me
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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 483336" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>What are you saying in your messages to her that she's not responding to? I was in my 20's and living with an older man once and if my mother was leaving a lot of messages stating her disapproval, honestly, I wouldn't have called her back. Now, if your messages are just asking her to call so you know she's ok and she's not going to feel like she's getting a lecture, that's different. As far as him being controlling- I've seen situations where people really are controlling but I've also seen situations where a couple chooses the one that's perceived to be the 'strongest' to handle communications with others, particularly those who disapprove, and that can be interpretted as controlling by others. I'd suggest just leaving a message asking her to call and let you know she's ok, that you are worried. But 25 and 33 is not that outrageous of an age difference, in my humble opinion. Also, my opinion could change if you mean she is financially supporting him or do you just mean she's standing by him?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 483336, member: 3699"] What are you saying in your messages to her that she's not responding to? I was in my 20's and living with an older man once and if my mother was leaving a lot of messages stating her disapproval, honestly, I wouldn't have called her back. Now, if your messages are just asking her to call so you know she's ok and she's not going to feel like she's getting a lecture, that's different. As far as him being controlling- I've seen situations where people really are controlling but I've also seen situations where a couple chooses the one that's perceived to be the 'strongest' to handle communications with others, particularly those who disapprove, and that can be interpretted as controlling by others. I'd suggest just leaving a message asking her to call and let you know she's ok, that you are worried. But 25 and 33 is not that outrageous of an age difference, in my humble opinion. Also, my opinion could change if you mean she is financially supporting him or do you just mean she's standing by him? [/QUOTE]
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