Hi I need some advice from other parents on what to do with my 19 year old who loves to smoke pot every day-my husband is making him move out by the end of the month-He has always been such a great kid until his senior year I noticed some changes in him my husband suspected he was smoking pot.....two days after graduation he was arrested for driving and smoking pot -we helped him out of that and he got an ARD program. He was on probation for 6 months and had to do community service -I now find out that he was smoking fake pot in case they drug tested him. He has two jobs one at school and one at a grocery store. We require him to make payments for his car insurance and cell phone and fines we paid for the pot arrest He was doing good with payments but has been skipping the payments I am pretty sure after probation was over he started smoking the real pot again and now smokes even more-he does not consider pot a drug but a medication he thinks he has ADHD I was seeing counselor as well as my son but he stopped going because the counselor tested him for adhd and he said my son may have this and should be on prescribed medication which my son says pot is his medicine counselor said I could not make him come back---- I stopped going to the counselor he just kept insisting I go to Al-non which I did not want to do at that time-he really loves school and is doing well except for the 1 class he flunked my husband wants him out of the house and my husband told him we will not pay for school anymore I really wanted him to finish college. I am very upset as I am writing this not sure what to do-my son told me he will drop out of school and he is not sure where he will live-all his friends are pot smokers even some of the parents are into this -I am afraid he will get into worse stuff or even sell drugs for money-he told my older son who is 24 and a great kid-that he has been offered jobs to sell pot-he also has use of our older car which my husband is taking off him also-I am also facing major surgery in a few weeks and I am thinking about cancelling that as far possible because I am so stressed and upset-any advice will be appreciated.