DDD
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Yes, lol, I know my experience is very dated but human nature remains the same generation after generation. I was single for six/seven years with my three kids following the divorce. My children only met three men during that time frame and one of them was accidentally, lol, because I 'knew" my kids and their Gramma would not be home before seven and lo and behold they showed up at six when boyfriend was playing the piano and singing to me as I showeed and got dressed to go out to dinner. LOL! He was a polite, entertaining attorney who was not my cup of tea, lol.
My husband is truly a genuinely good man. He really pushed (in a very quiet way) for us to "hook up" and becme a great blended family. I did marry him in 1976 and we have educated and raised six children and two grandsons BUT I am impressed that you are hesitant. Take your time. No blended family is perfect and if your boyfriend doesn't have kids it is less likely to be perfect. Slow and easy...and with caution is the way to go. I do wish you well. DDD
My husband is truly a genuinely good man. He really pushed (in a very quiet way) for us to "hook up" and becme a great blended family. I did marry him in 1976 and we have educated and raised six children and two grandsons BUT I am impressed that you are hesitant. Take your time. No blended family is perfect and if your boyfriend doesn't have kids it is less likely to be perfect. Slow and easy...and with caution is the way to go. I do wish you well. DDD