Sig - most of the fathers' rights groups will do protests and stuff like that, unfortunately it doesn't go any further. We tried that route with husband, and it was honestly a lot of hot air.
I don't think they have any in his area anyhow. But thanks for any/all suggestions. Right now I just can't wait to see Little S. late in July (the planned time of my trip). My ex is going down july 11 so Sportsfan and Little S. will get some sane support. Well, ok, so I'm NOT sane... but at least I don't party or drink around kids and will make my visit all about Little S.