I like the old fashioned bridal shower where it's just women. We laugh more, talk about things we usually would not talk about in mixed company. I like the simple finger foods and punch.
It's just one of those things for me I guess.
Up here they have this thing called a "Jack & Jill" which I suppose is similar to an engagement party, but instead of gifts, it's just a big bash where the guests pay a 'cover' at the door and then that money goes to the couple. I find that sort of 'cheezy', but it's big up here.
More and more people are doing the co-ed thing, so I guess there's no getting around it. Just enjoy. I hope the food is good!