My 17 yr old daughter has been struggling since she was 14. Alcohol is her drug of choice but she also huffs and does other drugs occasionally. She's ended up in the ER three times because of alcohol. She's been through two IOP's with no success. She was expelled from school for being intoxicated. She's such a well skilled liar and manipulator. I've been in denial for a long time. She will not agree to go to rehab and threatens to leave whenever we bring it up. Her dad yells at her because he doesn't know how to handle this, and it escalates to where she just leaves. He wants to kick her out when she turns 18. I'm exhausted and living in fear that she'll end up raped or dead. She'll be 18 in October and nothing seems to motivate her. All she wants to do is hang out with her druggy friends. I don't know what to do. My husband and I are at each other's throats and it's taking a toll on my health. I can barely get up for work in the morning and then I don't want to come home! Any advice on how to get her to rehab? We really need help. I'm going to my first al anon mtg tomorrow. Sorry to ramble... Thanks for listening.