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nandz
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Ok, I just posted this and it erased it so now I had to totally had to retype this..just add to my **** day, please..
difficult child has been doing really well lately, or so I thought. He has been having stellar reports from daycare and has been really good at home. This week has been off. He's been more emotional lately. He has also developed a tic from his stims or the risperdal. We are not sure from which one it is. His pysch said it was from the stimulant. GREAT. I don't know what to do. He needs the medications to function at a better level, but I don't want him to have tics that kids will make fun of him. They are not noticeable because only I have seen them, but it is there. He had vacation bible school (VBS) this week. He went Monday and he was OK. He did just fine when I left and enjoyed it. Tuesday, he had a melt down when I left, but he was ok after I left for a bit. husband took him on Thursday and he said he did just fine. He did great when husband left and didn't have any problems at all. He had his VBS program tonight for parents to come and watch so I went. He was ok until it all started. They started the songs and he started doing the motions, but I started taping him and he melted down. He started crying and screaming. So, I took him outside to settle down. I sat him in the grass and told him if he wanted to have a fit he could sit there until he was done and we were not going inside until he calmed down. We sat out there for 1 1/2 hrs until he calmed down. He didn't scream the whole time, but he sat there pouting and angry so I told him that we still were not going inside. He finally said he was ok and we went inside. He melted again once we got hin there and I had to take him to the bathroom until he calmed down again. He finally went to play with his group and he only got to play for 5 minutes before it was over. We missed the whole thing because of his attitude and moods. I was sorely disappointed. I just wish one time I could go and he could do things like the other kids so I could enjoy watching him instead of being the one who is always getting stared at because her kid is having a melt down. He came home and went right to bed...
Second part, I lost my job today. In 30 days, I will have no job and no income...what a great way to start the weekend.
Third part, our basement flooded and ruined just about everything down there. I got home to a flooded basement.
Thanks for letting me vent...I just don't know what to do anymore..uggh
difficult child has been doing really well lately, or so I thought. He has been having stellar reports from daycare and has been really good at home. This week has been off. He's been more emotional lately. He has also developed a tic from his stims or the risperdal. We are not sure from which one it is. His pysch said it was from the stimulant. GREAT. I don't know what to do. He needs the medications to function at a better level, but I don't want him to have tics that kids will make fun of him. They are not noticeable because only I have seen them, but it is there. He had vacation bible school (VBS) this week. He went Monday and he was OK. He did just fine when I left and enjoyed it. Tuesday, he had a melt down when I left, but he was ok after I left for a bit. husband took him on Thursday and he said he did just fine. He did great when husband left and didn't have any problems at all. He had his VBS program tonight for parents to come and watch so I went. He was ok until it all started. They started the songs and he started doing the motions, but I started taping him and he melted down. He started crying and screaming. So, I took him outside to settle down. I sat him in the grass and told him if he wanted to have a fit he could sit there until he was done and we were not going inside until he calmed down. We sat out there for 1 1/2 hrs until he calmed down. He didn't scream the whole time, but he sat there pouting and angry so I told him that we still were not going inside. He finally said he was ok and we went inside. He melted again once we got hin there and I had to take him to the bathroom until he calmed down again. He finally went to play with his group and he only got to play for 5 minutes before it was over. We missed the whole thing because of his attitude and moods. I was sorely disappointed. I just wish one time I could go and he could do things like the other kids so I could enjoy watching him instead of being the one who is always getting stared at because her kid is having a melt down. He came home and went right to bed...
Second part, I lost my job today. In 30 days, I will have no job and no income...what a great way to start the weekend.
Third part, our basement flooded and ruined just about everything down there. I got home to a flooded basement.
Thanks for letting me vent...I just don't know what to do anymore..uggh