Yep-my fault because difficult child spilled sugar everywhere this morning Before he breakfast he wanted me to get the sugar down and put it away. I told him he needed to use the stool and he could reach it perfectly. He went into the kitchen and I wrongly assumed he was using the stool. All of a sudden I heard a huge crash and he was screaming how it was all my fault that he spilled the sugar. I asked if he had been using the stool and he said no but it was still my fault because I wouldn't put the sugar away. Love his reasoning I told him I would sweep up the sugar on the floor and take care of what was on the counter but he was cleaning out the cupboard where a bunch of it also fell. The good news is he has calmed down enough that he is now cleaning it out (I'll have to go clean it after because he really isn't able to do a thorough job and the last thing I need is ants). In his mind this will always be my fault-grrr!