KrisfromNJ
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Update: I never figured out how to set a sig, but I wanted to checkin. I have been reading and not really posting. I been trying to just take some great advice from a fantastic group of ladies and apply it. You can see my son is choosing homelessness post for some back ground.
Well it has been three months since I decided to get my own life together and let difficult child be difficult child. I knew I had to do something drastic to take myself and my SO out of the volatile situation we were in. Therefore I changed mine and SO cell numbers and our home number.
Because my difficult child never gives up I also changed his mailing address at the post office to a PO box that I paid In advance so I wouldn't have to deal with seeing his court notices, warrants and medical bills he would never plan to pay anyways. In my last conversation I explained to him I loved him, he is a smart guy and said you can figure it out. Right now though "we" meaning SO and me need to get on with our lives. I the gave him his PO key and told him his "new address".
We started our lives and now three months have past, I have not heard from difficult child until last week. It appears something happened when we cut ties. He woke up "or seems" to woke up. I don't want to get my hopes up but I seen him down town passing by and he is no longer homeless. He signed himself up to an independent living program and they are helping him get a job.
For the first time and I know this is small... He said sorry for everything I put you guys through... When I get settled can you do me a favor and come by and see my new place I live at? Well I told him I was working and busy but let's meet after this month and we will see.
Here is hoping..... I just wanted to thank all you gals, I may not know you personally but I feel a kindred spirit when I am here and wish everyone the best. I will be checking in from time to time and posting some updates.
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Well it has been three months since I decided to get my own life together and let difficult child be difficult child. I knew I had to do something drastic to take myself and my SO out of the volatile situation we were in. Therefore I changed mine and SO cell numbers and our home number.
Because my difficult child never gives up I also changed his mailing address at the post office to a PO box that I paid In advance so I wouldn't have to deal with seeing his court notices, warrants and medical bills he would never plan to pay anyways. In my last conversation I explained to him I loved him, he is a smart guy and said you can figure it out. Right now though "we" meaning SO and me need to get on with our lives. I the gave him his PO key and told him his "new address".
We started our lives and now three months have past, I have not heard from difficult child until last week. It appears something happened when we cut ties. He woke up "or seems" to woke up. I don't want to get my hopes up but I seen him down town passing by and he is no longer homeless. He signed himself up to an independent living program and they are helping him get a job.
For the first time and I know this is small... He said sorry for everything I put you guys through... When I get settled can you do me a favor and come by and see my new place I live at? Well I told him I was working and busy but let's meet after this month and we will see.
Here is hoping..... I just wanted to thank all you gals, I may not know you personally but I feel a kindred spirit when I am here and wish everyone the best. I will be checking in from time to time and posting some updates.
Sent using ConductDisorders mobile app