compassion
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Thanks all for the support. Tonight was rough.She just had a 3 hour fit about going to the using friends or going to a party place. I maintained though did waver several times. She did share she saw her 20 year old boyfriend at the college today. A few days ago I told her freinds only for now. She really escalated tonight. She hasn't eaten today or exercised. She was crying and making all kinds of threats and she threw stuff at me. She is still here though and she has volleyballl and Humane Society tomorrow. She has been very difant and noncompliant and angry. The crying that is actaully progress. For me, it is huge progress not giving in!!!! The girl she wants to spend the night with is the girl she was drivng with when she has her first accident in July and they all took off and she got charged with leaving the scene and some other stuff. She is on probation (suspended sentence) until March. I cannot let her take any risks that will jepordize that. Half the time she seems about ages 2-5, sometmes goes up till age 9. Pretty scary stuff and needs so much supervison and guidance.
She has gained 15 pounds:Abilify plus Depovera. However, she teends to eat tons of unk food. i do not have it around here but that is what she will eat. I am avoiding power stuggles. I maintained my calm pretty well tongiht. husband got reactive at times and my son a few tiems but I maintained the calm, told her I loved her but she could not go party of spend night at C's.
Compassion
She has gained 15 pounds:Abilify plus Depovera. However, she teends to eat tons of unk food. i do not have it around here but that is what she will eat. I am avoiding power stuggles. I maintained my calm pretty well tongiht. husband got reactive at times and my son a few tiems but I maintained the calm, told her I loved her but she could not go party of spend night at C's.
Compassion