Hello everyone. I've been around here and there . . . difficult child is finally in a 3-6 month inpatient rehab. husband and I flew with him to Oklahoma on Saturday to check out the facility and enrolled him on the spot. I did a lot of research and instincts tell us it is a good place/good fit for him. I haven't stopped praying since. Just hope he likes it and agrees to stay. We've already told him if he doesn't complete the program, he can't come back home. I can't tell you how relaxed I am at home without him - not worrying about who he is bringing in my house, the smell of his cigarette smoke, worrying about where he is, with who, and what he is doing. But, of course, I can't stop thinking about him, miss him and am constantly worried that he will call and tell me he hates it there! Anyway, just wanted to post this newest development. Sure wish we had done this sooner. We'll be in the poor house by the time it is all over, but I don't regret this decision one bit. Please add us to your prayers if you can, I am sure it will be a long few months!