timer lady
Queen of Hearts
ktbug incident.....I can see kt falling apart right in front of me. I've a call into mental health CM.
I'm giving kt some small freedoms but with those come responsibility. Late curfew - she lost her cell phone for the day. Soooooo, ms kt decided that she would use my cell phone to call a boy at 1 in the morning & talk for 2 hours.
This morning - wouldn't get up for school. I saw it coming last night already.
There aren't high expectations but I told the team that it was wrong to let kt know about Plan B. She's sabotaging herself & is ramped up with anxiety.
I'm not pushing her one way or the other. We sat down & discussed consequences for certain decisions; we discussed the freedoms & responsibilities that would come with better decisions & family work.
We have our daily check in - she didn't like yesterday's because I got a call from a weird number & it was this young man. Ick.
All in all an ugly situation already. Or maybe it's just that I'm not as conditioned as I once was to this nonsense.
I'm giving kt some small freedoms but with those come responsibility. Late curfew - she lost her cell phone for the day. Soooooo, ms kt decided that she would use my cell phone to call a boy at 1 in the morning & talk for 2 hours.
This morning - wouldn't get up for school. I saw it coming last night already.
There aren't high expectations but I told the team that it was wrong to let kt know about Plan B. She's sabotaging herself & is ramped up with anxiety.
I'm not pushing her one way or the other. We sat down & discussed consequences for certain decisions; we discussed the freedoms & responsibilities that would come with better decisions & family work.
We have our daily check in - she didn't like yesterday's because I got a call from a weird number & it was this young man. Ick.
All in all an ugly situation already. Or maybe it's just that I'm not as conditioned as I once was to this nonsense.