I worked with a sociopath. I will qualify this to say, he was not diagnosed as such to my knowledge, this is just my assessment of him. But he had all the hallmarks and made my life a misery, sabotaging me professionally as much as he could. I did eventually succeed but it was a real struggle.
The interesting thing - he was a child refugee. He told a story about how he and his mother escaped from behind the Iron Curtain and the story that really chilled our blood was not any adventure of running from a hail of bullets, it was simply a quiet, eeerily silent night, in a deserted border village. And he made his mother walk through first. And she did.
What does this do to a boy? How can he equate his desperation for survival, with his acknowledgment that he was prepared for his mother to die first, in the event it was a trap? How can he ever, in all conscience, HAVE a conscience, after that?
I no longer have anything to do with this bloke, he left the job in shame and has not been heard of since. But I know another refugee who escaped a similar situation. And while I don't see this second guy as psychopathic, he certainly isn't normal. He plays silly tricks, he will pick an argument with someone just because he's bored, he can only really join in a conversation on a superficial level, he HAS to be the centre of attention - as if he still is the small child whose family sheltered from bombs in the basements of various houses as they journeyed across Europe.
I'm not saying all refugees are psychopathic, but I do wonder if the sort of trauma these kids endure doesn't have some lasting effect on at least some of them. It would depend on so much - how old they were, how bad the trauma was, how long it lasted, how much healing help they had access to.
Marg