G'day, folks.
WFEN, happy birthday for difficult child! I'm glad you got to have your walk at last.
Sharon/WO, you sound like you have a busy day today - are you sure you need the gym? Safe travels to Michigan.
TM, sounds like you have a busy schedule. Think how good it will feel to have the taxes finally done.
artana, enjoy your day. I've found it helps to draft my posts in a text file, then copy and paste across. That way if it vanishes, you still have a copy.
Andy, it's very sensible to take a list of questions and notes to specialist appointments. That way you reserve your brain power for more important things.
It's been a quiet day in the Marg village today. difficult child 3 is working steadily (but slowly) while I had to get on with the pillar candle today. Two people had asked me to wait to make it until today so they could watch and learn, so I waited. And waited. I rang them after lunch - no answer, so I left messages. By 3 pm I had to melt out the wax and begin making the candle. A pillar candle needs to be watched as it cools because long, deep cavities can develop as the wax shrinks and the hoile must be kept open and topped up with more hot wax. I was regretting waiting, I was checking the candle by torchlight and watching the clock, I had a friend's birthday party to drop in on.
Finally I felt the candle was as good as it was going to get so I quickly cvhanged and got to the birthday - a bit late. I couldn't stay to eat, I had to get to choir practice. We'd tried to re-schedule because most of the hcoir were going to also be at the birthday but last I'd heard, the choir was on. So I left the party and headed for choir - to be told it had been cancelled because of the party, and why hadn't I ben told. Hey, I'm only the conductor... The person who was supposed to tell me, was also one of those supposed to be available to help me with the candle.
I should be angry but I'm not. I had a peaceful time on my own doing the candle, as I always do, it had worked fairly well (apart from the cooling problem) and yet again the opportunity/desire to have other people learn how to do this has been lost for another year. Typical.
I went back to the party, husband joined me and we had a lovely time. The other bloke who was supposed to help with the candle today came up to me at the party and asked me what time he was to turn up tomorrow. I said, "Today as agreed would have been good, I figured you'd been held up."
He said, "Yeah, I was late home, didn't get home until 11 am." Three hours before I rang him. I guess it's just been too delightful an autumn day today in the village, the sunlight was too soporific.
Tomorrow is house cleaning, cooking, supervising difficult child 3's work and calling the school for a final report-in before the end of term. I'm glad I got the candle made today, let's hope I did it right, or I'll have to do it all again over the weekend. It needs a solid day at least, to cool evenly. And it then has to be unmoulded, tidied and painted by Saturday night. I'm glad I didn't wait - my peace of mind is worth far more than fussing over other people who can't get their act together. I want a tranquil Easter, please. So far so good!
Enjoy your Wednesday, everyone.
Marg