I am the grandmother of a 3.5 year old boy. He has a problem with hitting and pushing other children. He is also extremely difficult to control and often will not follow directions. His parents at first believed his behavior was "normal boy stuff" but now are working hard to handle him. It is up to them to seek evaluation and I believe they will if these behaviors continue. My problem is I do not feel comfortable being with him (without his parents) because I am not sure I can keep him safe. I have dealt with many children and raised several and have never had such a problem. Is there a resource for me? Thank you.