yes I was confused by their statement that they are not taking new patients because I thought they just evaluated and moved on.I was referred by pediatrican and therapist. I was told that he is very good. I was under the impression that he would evaluate difficult child and then we would have some idea of what we are dealing with and be able to go to a child pyschiatrist with the information. He is a a PHD with the extra training, I wonder if he's so backed up that they couldn't see us. We will see the therapist on Thursday and see what she says. Actually I think that I will call her right now and leave a message. I have to call dr tomorrow, I will ask her opinion as well. I have to get a referral from her in order for him to be seen at Riley. I'd love to get him in there as it is one of the best children's hospitals around. Beth, believe me, I have no intentions of cutting corners with this. We have wasted enough time already, first I wasted all those years believing it was all my fault and then all these therapists who are underqualified to deal with a child like B but can't bring themselves to tell me that and so instead waste our precious time and B gets older and things just get worse. Thank you all so much for all your help. It really means alot to me! I have felt so alone for so long